We all know the falafel, when its loaded to exhaustion with an abundance of things, but we all also know what happens to such a falafel, the pita is torn, the tahini spills and the salad gets scattered. 

The same is true in life. Sometimes with great desire to give and shower good things, we forget that the other party might simply not be able to contain and receive all those good things, because the vessel is too small to contain all that light.